The Most Awesome Suitor and the Unintended Consequences
(12/27/2008)

Suitor appeared outside dormitory building with bouquet in hand


Everybody came out to watch


Even the campus police got anxious about a possible mass incident

At 12:45pm on December 24, a male student came to the space between Dormitory Number 42 and 52 of the Huanan Agricultural University, and unfolded four long banners to declare love to a female student. The banners: "XXX, I love you," "I don't want to lose you, can we be together?" "I am silly because I cannot live without you," "I am silly, please come back to me."

As this was the time of day when students return to their dormitories, the action drew a large group of spectators. The campus security guards went up to intercede, but the student just ignored them. The campus security guards send patrols cars around to disperse the spectators. The crowd slowly dissipated by 1:30pm. The female student that was the subject of the suit never made an appearance.

At 3:00pm or so, netizens began to post the photos and videos onto the Internet.

Then came the unexpected consequences. "Who is the female principal in this incident?" Some netizens got curious and initiated a human flesh search. By the next morning, it was alleged that the female student had been discovered. She is reportedly a third-year student.




Yesterday afternoon, the reporter interviewed the female student by telephone. "I did not do anything. I did not know about this beforehand. He was just a friend from before and I have not been in contact with him for a while. There is nothing extraordinary about a suitor, but it is the human flesh search thing that is shocking." The reporter learned that this female student has already received many harassing telephone calls, but she is relatively calm.

"Actually, why is it necessary to find out about the female principal? She is innocent." A netizen posted at the Huanan Agricultural University BBS and said that there was no need to ferret out the details of someone in order to assess their looks and characters.

At 1:40pm, a post at the Huanan Agricultural University BBS by a netizen who claims to be relaying a message from the male suitor. The post was titled: "Words from the crazy guy on December 24 at the Huanan Agricultural University." The man wanted netizens to stop the human flesh search and protect the privacy of the female principal. The man said that he was sorry for hurting the girl. "I hate myself for starting the ruckus. I hate myself for not considering her situation ... I hope that you will all want to protect a nice girl and not let this affair evolve into a bigger tragedy ... as for me, I had it coming. Actually, I have no right to speak of love. My love was totally selfish ... Please let this affair come to an end, okay?"

男生平安夜喊樓求愛 女主角遭人肉搜索
2008/12/27
在大學裡,許多學生都說,冬天是戀愛的季節,適合表白。平安夜中午,華南農業大學躍進北生活區就有這樣一名大膽男生,手捧鮮花並打出橫幅跑到心儀女生的宿捨前,公開喊樓求愛。當天下午,這個被學生們戲稱為『箍煲橫幅事件』的照片和視頻被網友上傳到QQ空間和論壇,引來網友激烈議論,並有好奇者對當事女主角展開人肉大搜索。當事女生身份暴露,據稱接到多個騷擾電話。當事男生則表示後悔,求網友放過該女生。

  大膽男生喊樓求愛

  24日中午12時45分,一名男生和同伴來到華南農業大學躍進北生活區42棟與52棟宿捨樓樓下空地,與同伴扯開四條橫幅向52棟女生宿捨高呼愛的宣言。

  住在47棟的藝術學院女生小梁回憶,這四條橫幅上分別寫著『×××我愛你』、『我不想失去你可不可以在一起』、『傻瓜我不能沒有你』、『傻瓜回到我身邊好嗎』。

  『太轟動了,這個男生真的挺大膽的,那麼多人都不怕。』小梁說,當時這名男生穿著一件灰色上衣,下身牛仔褲,手捧大束玫瑰對著52棟靠近樓梯方向的宿捨喊出愛的宣言。『這種特別的求愛方式以前在華農也發生過,躍進南生活區就有一個男生曾擺心形求愛。』

  此時正是學生下課回宿捨的高峰期,周圍很快就聚了大量旁觀學生。

  『47棟的每一層過道都站滿了人,下面還圍了幾大圈。』目擊現場的學生阿燕描述說。

  不久,學校保安上前乾涉,但該男生置之不理,無奈之下,學校只好派出巡邏車驅散學生。

  直到中午1時30分許,人群纔逐漸散去。但事件中女主角始終未正式露面。

  意外好奇網友展開人肉搜索

  『求愛事件』發生後,當天15時許,就有網友將照片和視頻上傳到QQ空間及優酷網。

  『這個當事女主角到底是哪位MM呢?』由於事件中女主角一直未露面,一些好奇的網友開始展開人肉大搜索。

  『這樣求愛成功率有多大?行的話我下次也要去試試看。』一直關注該事件的華工大二學生阿欣表示,自己和其他網友一樣,很想知道當事女生是否會答應求愛。

  昨日上午,有學生表示已從網絡上獲悉該女生的學號。『據說是06級的一名女生,就住在52棟。』

  昨天下午,記者通過網友輾轉聯系到當事女生,上述說法得到該女生默認。

  該女生接受了記者電話采訪。『不過,我沒做任何事,事前也並不知道有這回事,他只是以前的一個朋友,很久沒聯系了。求愛這種事很平常,讓人震驚的是為什麼要人肉搜索。』當事女生回應事件時說道。

  記者還了解到,該女生至今已接到多個騷擾電話,但心情還比較平靜。

  『其實,女主角是誰有什麼必要知道呢?人家是無辜的。』一名網友在華農學生論壇跟帖表示,事件已經造成了很大的影響,同學們看過就算了,沒必要把人家揪出來評頭論足。

  有人戲稱,這是聖誕平安夜的狂歡,『和尚也瘋狂。』

  懺悔沒想到給女孩帶來傷害

  找出這名女生!或許求愛男生事前完全沒有想到,網友的力量竟是這麼強大。

  就在事件主角快要水落石出時,昨日中午1時40分,網友lcyx在華農紅滿堂論壇上,轉發了一個『12月24日華南農業大學某瘋狂男子語』的帖子,作者以當事男生的身份要網友停止人肉搜索,保護當事女主角。

  在帖子中,該男生除了對自己的行為『給女生造成傷害』感到悔恨,『恨自己無理取鬧,恨自己從沒有為她想過』外,更多的是希望大家停止人肉搜索,不要再傷害女主角。

  『希望你們願意去維護一個善良的女孩,不要讓這件事繼續演變,成為更大的悲劇……至於我,我罪有應得。其實,我已經沒有資格說愛了,我的愛全是自私……讓這件事停止下來吧,好嗎?』

  24分鍾後,該網友再次『轉言』:『如果需要點擊率,那就開帖唾罵該唾罵的人,恥笑該恥笑的人,但請大家不要用人肉搜索去傷害一個善良沒有過錯的女孩好嗎?我接受所有的不齒……放過她吧,她只是曾經愛錯了一個人,難道一個善良的女孩就應該承受人們的好奇所帶來的傷害嗎?』

  如此人肉搜索是否違法?廣東廣強律師事務所黃婉玲律師認為,『人肉搜索』常常涉及到個人隱私問題,很容易觸及法律和道德底線。現在我國法律對隱私權雖未有明確的條款加以保護,但現行的司法實踐是將隱私權納入名譽權的范疇予以保護。如果網友將女主角的私人信息都搜索出來,並將這些資料在網上公開,則可能侵犯他人的隱私權,被追究相應的法律責任。

我完全没有任何理由理你Wo Wan Quan Mei You Ren He Li You Li Ni - 王力宏Wang Li Hong
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